Meet our founder!

Idale Graves is the visionary behind A Better Me = A Better We, a movement dedicated to empowering men on their journey of self-improvement and personal growth. With over 35 years of experience in leadership, mentorship, and professional development, Idale has devoted his life to helping others unlock their full potential.

Drawing from his extensive background in coaching, training, and community engagement, Idale understands the challenges men face in today’s world. His passion for mental resilience, emotional intelligence, and personal accountability has inspired countless individuals to take control of their lives and build stronger relationships.

Under his leadership, A Better Me = A Better We has become a trusted resource for men seeking guidance, motivation, and a supportive brotherhood. Through workshops, mentorship programs, and community initiatives, Idale continues to foster an environment where men can grow, heal, and thrive—because when one man improves, the entire community benefits.

"You can not show up to a relationship and expect it to be optimal unless  you have YOUR shit together first." – Idale Graves